"Keep your eyes open to your mercies. The man who forgets to be thankful has fallen asleep in life."
Robert Louis Stevenson
The Thanksgiving holiday is always on the fourth Thursday of November, that is the 26th of this month. Hence this was the theme of this week's virtual CST Friendship Group.
(We asked members to wear their favourite American themed t-shirt.)
We went around the room and asked members ...
- What are they most thankful for?
- What is their happiest memory?
- What is the life achievement or decision they are most proud of?
- Are there any regrets about missed opportunities?
- What about 'Bucket List' ambitions of things to do or places to visit?
- Has anyone visited America? What places would members recommend?
IDIOMS FOR THANKSGIVING
Complete these phrases with members ....
Count your BLESSINGS
A blessing in DISGUISE
Thank your lucky STARS
Thank God for small MERCIES
Pearls of WISDOM
Better late than NEVER
So far so GOOD
Piece of CAKE
The best of both WORLDS
A bird in the hand is worth two in THE BUSH
Actions speak louder than WORDS
Do unto others as you would have them DO UNTO YOU
Don't cry over SPILT MILK
Every cloud has a SILVER LINING
Good things come to those who WAIT
It ain't over 'til the fat lady SINGS
The best thing since SLICED BREAD
Take it with a pinch of SALT
Come rain or SHINE
Fortune favours the BOLD / BRAVE
Make hay while the sun SHINES
Through thick and THIN
Weather the STORM
Like a turkey voting for CHRISTMAS
On cloud NINE
MUSIC & PICTURE QUIZ
Reduce content as necessary, according to the needs of your group and the time available. Give lots of clues, such as first names or initials. Encourage discussion and storytelling. Focus on engagement and inclusion, rather than competition.
ROUND 1. History
1. Which Italian explorer and navigator is said to have discovered the Americas in 1492?
2. What was the name of the ship which brought the Pilgrims from Plymouth in the UK to Cape Cod in Massachussets, North America in November 1621?
3. The Pilgrims were given another name because they wanted to purify the teachings and ceremonies of the Church of England. What was their other name?
4. The Pilgrims only “celebrated” one day (each week), aside from Thanksgiving and Fasting Days, which were unplanned in response to challenges such as drought or flood. What was it?
5. How did the Wampanoag Tribe help the Pilgrims soon after their arrival and first awful winter, when more than half of them died?
6. Which US President proclaimed a national Thanksgiving Day in 1863, during the Civil War (before that different states celebrated in different days)?
7. In 1784 Benjamin Franklin suggested the turkey be the national bird of the U.S.A., because they were so important to tradition and culture (and they are a brave bird). Which bird was later chosen instead?
8. SONG. 'Star Spangled Banner', Whitney Houston - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L3FdTKhzZWU
Approximately how many turkeys are eaten each year on Thanksgiving in the United States?
Or, How many Americans eat turkey on Thanksgiving (percentage)?
ROUND 2. Pardoning Turkeys
Identify these US Presidents pardoning turkeys, which is a tradition since 1947?
9. Name the President?
Where was he assassinated in 1963?
10. Name the President?
What was the scandal he was associated with called?
11. Name the President?
What was his wife's name?
12. Name the President?
Which woman did he 'not have sexual relations with'?
13. Name the President?
Who was UK Prime Minister at the time, that supported the 'War On Terror'?
14. Name the President?
Where was he born?
15. Name the President?
What reality TV series did he most recently present?
16. SONG. 'Thank You Very Much', The Scaffold - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MjnkmNyArNg
Which Christmas tin of sweets was this song used to advertise in the 1970s?
ROUND 3. Food
17. Can turkeys fly?
Do all turkeys gobble?
18. Which part of a turkey can give you good luck, according to legend?
19. How do you tell if cranberries are ripe? Do you: a. Bounce them, b. See if they float or c. Check their colour inside
20. Creamed corn is an important dish in a Thanksgiving dinner. Which large happy man used to advertise sweetcorn in the UK?
21. Similarly pumpkin pie is an important tradition. What are the ingredients of 'Mixed Spice', which is used to flavour it?
22. What is the 'national drink of America', or "native spirit"?
23. True or False. Does eating turkey make you sleepy?
24. SONG. 'American Pie', Don McLean - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=STbcPHAR0Qs
List some other types of pie?
ROUND 4. TV & Film
25. Name these three characters, from a famous 1974 children's Thanksgiving film?
26. In which American city was the TV comedy series 'Cheers' set?
TV theme - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rS0VQOHX7lM
27. Which Andrew wrote the song 'Thank You For Being A Friend', which was used as the theme tune for the TV comedy series 'The Golden Girls'?
TV theme - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HV7AXRABSng
28. Which character in the 'Thanksgiving' episode of there TV comedy series 'Friends' got a turkey stuck on her head? Which other character is pictured here, who told her after this scene that he loved her?
TV theme - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sLisEEwYZvw
29. Name this 1987 Thanksgiving film, starring Steve Martin and John Candy?
30. Name as many children as you can in the TV drama series 'The Waltons'?
TV theme - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpmRcP8S7Bo
31. In which 1939 movie did the character Scarlett O'Hara say "As God is my witness, I'll never be hungry again."
Also, who played her character?
32. SONG. 'Make Someone Happy', Jimmy Durante - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88ysQcoZUNY
Which 1993 movie was this song used in? And where did the main characters, played by Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan, finally meet?
ROUND 5. Iconic American Landmarks
33. What metal is the 'Statue of Liberty' made of?
34. In which US city would you find the 'Liberty Bell'?
35. Which four US Presidents are carved into 'Mount Rushmore'?
36. In which US city would you find the 'Golden Gate Bridge'?
Which island prison is nearby?
37. In which US city is 'Hollywood'?
Which four letters used to be at the end of the sign?
38. What 'Garden Of Remembrance' is pictured here in front of the new 'One World Trade Center' in New York?
39. Who will live here from January 2021?
40. SONG. 'What A Wonderful World', Louis Armstrong - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-T6aaRV9HY
What was Louis Armstrong's nickname?
41. SONG. 'Thanks For The Memories', Bob Hope & Dorothy Lamour - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KmE7gVkK14I
In the 'Road To ....' movies, who always co-starred alongside Bob Hope?
(The 'Roads To' were SINGAPORE, ZANZIBAR, MOROCCO, UTOPIA, RIO, BALI & HONG KONG)
42. SONG. 'Magic Moments', Perry Como - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=su2g1wTdTMo
This song also helped advertise chocolates. Which ones?
(The song was also used as the name and music for a fictional 'Surprise, Surprise' show in the Victoria Wood TV drama 'PAT AND MARGARET')
A traditional Thanksgiving dinner consists of:
- Roast Turkey, with stuffing
- Mashed potato
- Cranberry sauce
- Corn, grilled or creamed
- Green bean casserole or Brussels sprouts with bacon
- Cracked pepper bread rolls
- Candied sweet potato or yams
- Pumpkin pie or Pecan pie
Ask members to comment on the above meal and how it compares to our Christmas Day feast?
What are people planning to have to eat on Christmas Day this year?
Who will they celebrate it with?
Have any decorations gone up yet?
The day after Thanksgiving, when people head for the sales, is commonly referred to as 'Black Friday'. Ask members who likes going shopping in the New Year sales?
YOU SAY POTATO
Next, ask members to guess at the alternative American words for everyday English words.
Biscuit - COOKIE
Chips - FRENCH FRIES
Crisps - CHIPS
Aubergine - EGGPLANT
Courgette - ZUCCHINI
Spring onion - SCALLION
Beetroot - BEETS
Herbs - HERB (WITH A SILENT H)
Basil - BASIL (WITH THE S SOUNDING LIKE A Z)
Coriander - CILANTRO
Porridge - OATMEAL
Treacle - MOLASSES
Mincemeat - GROUND BEEF OR PORK (Remember the 'Trifle' episode of 'Friends')
Ice lolly - POPSICLE
Sweets - CANDY
Candy floss - COTTON CANDY
Jam - JELLY
Jelly - JELLO
Trainers - SNEAKERS
Kit - UNIFORM
Jumper - SWEATER
Tissue - KLEENEX
Nappy - DIAPER
Dummy - PACIFIER
Vacuum - HOOVER
Flat - APARTMENT
Lift - ELEVATOR
Underground - SUBWAY
Pavement - SIDEWALK
Zebra crossing - CROSSWALK
Toilet - RESTROOM
Chemist - PHARMACY
High Street - MAIN STREET
Lorry - TRUCK
Estate car - STATION WAGON
Motorway - HIGHWAY
Flyover - OVERPASS
Diversion - DETOUR
Car park - PARKING LOT
Petrol - GAS
Queue - LINE
Post - MAIL
Post code - ZIP CODE
Timetable - SCHEDULE
Rubber - ERASER
Torch - FLASHLIGHT
Mobile phone - CELL PHONE
Car boot - TRUNK
Car bonnet - HOOD
Takeaway - TAKEOUT
Rubbish - GARBAGE OR TRASH
Holiday - VACATION
Autumn - FALL
Noughts and crosses - TIC TAC TOE
Football - SOCCER
Full stop - PERIOD
SONG. 'Let's Call The Whole Thing Off', Fred Astaire & Ginger Rogers - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRrw2hDjnl4
Here's a classic Gershwin song to go with this activity.
We suggest you print off some outline images to make 'Thank You' cards together. Adult colouring is always an enjoyable activity for our group.
Discuss with members who they would most like to say 'Thank You' too and for what reasons?
Another option would be to download onto phones or laptops, if you have these available, the following apps.
Happy Colour - Colour By Numbers, created by https://x-flow.app
Colorfy, created by www.colorfy.net
(both available in the iOS App Store or Google Playstore)
'Happy Colour' requires you to use your finger or a dabber to colour in numbered sections of an image. If you get stuck an assist button is available.
'Colorfy' is more free flow, which may be a better option for people who are less able to identify numbered and shaded areas.
The benefit of both of these apps is immediate colour within defined lines, so the annoyance of not being able to fully control pens and pencils freehand is removed.
We suggest you offer members Pecan Pie, or Pumpkin Pie, or Apple Pie, and Cranberry or Apple Juice (or hot cider) to really get the Thanksgiving vibe really going.
1. CHRISTOPHER COLUMBUS
2. 'THE MAYFLOWER'
4. THE SABBATH (SUNDAY)
5. THEY TAUGHT THEM HOW TO CULTIVATE THE LAND. 'THANKSGIVING' CELEBRATED THE FIRST HARVEST OF CORN
6. ABRAHAM LINCOLN
7. BALD EAGLE
8. 46 MILLION / 88%
9. JFK (JOHN FITZGERALD KENNEDY) / DALLAS
10. RICHARD NIXON / WATERGATE
11. RONALD REGAN / NANCY
12. BILL CLINTON / MONICA LEWINSKY
13. GEORGE W. BUSH / TONY BLAIR
14. BARACK OBAMA / HONOLULU, HAWAII
15. DONALD TRUMP / 'THE APPRENTICE USA'
16. 'CADBURY'S ROSES'
17. ONLY WILD TURKEYS CAN FLY (FARMED ONES ARE TOO FAT!)
ONLY MALE TURKEYS GOBBLE
19. YOU BOUNCE THEM (RIPE ONES SHOULD BOUNCE 4 INCHES HIGH!)
20. THE JOLLY GREEN GIANT
21. 'MIXED SPICE' IS GENERALLY A BLEND OF GROUND CINNAMON, NUTMEG, GINGER AND CLOVES
23. TRUE. Turkeys contain an amino acid called Tryptophan, which is a natural sedative. However, the large amount of food eaten and alcohol drunk probably contributes!
24. APPLE, PECAN, KEY LIME, CHERRY, LEMON MERINGUE, BANOFFEE, PORK, STARGAZEY
25. CHARLIE BROWN, WOODSTOCK & SNOOPY
27. ANDREW GOLD
28. MONICA GELLER & CHANDLER BING
29. 'PLANES, TRAINS AND AUTOMOBILES'
30. JOHN BOY, JASON, MARY ELLEN, BEN, ERIN, JIM BOB & ELIZABETH
31. 'GONE WITH THE WIND' / SCARLETT O'HARA
32. 'SLEEPLESS IN SEATTLE' / AT THE TOP OF THE EMPIRE STATE BUILDING
35. GEORGE WASHINGTON, THOMAS JEFFERSON, ABRAHAM LINCOLN & THEODORE ROOSEVELT
36. SAN FRANSISCO / 'ALCATRAZ'
37. LOS ANGELES / HOLLYWOOD - LAND
38. GROUND ZERO'
39. JOE BIDEN
41. BING CROSBY
42. 'QUALITY STREET'