"Happy Father's Day", 20th June

"My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person, he believed in me." Jim Valvano "When it comes to Father's Day, I will remember my dad for both being there to nurture me and also for the times he gave me on my own to cultivate my own interests and to nurture my own spirit." Jennifer Grant


As it is 'Father's Day' on 20th June, we started by sharing a picture of our fathers and saying a little about them. Some members who were fathers brought pictures of their children. It was a lovely way to start the session.

(It's good to prepare and know family names etc to fill in the gaps if anyone struggles with naming their children.)

(It is also important to know a little about member's life stories, their loves and losses, before engaging in conversations like this.)

We asked what members thought of 'Father's Day' and 'Mother's Day'? Are both days a nice recognition or a gift shop rip off?

We asked members to list the most appropriate or welcome 'Father's Day' gifts? Our list included:

- Bottle of whisky - Pack of cigars - Aftershave - Gift token - Meal out - Chocolates

We asked what the worst gifts might be?

- Socks - Pants - Slippers - Tie - Gardening tools - Shaving equipment

We moved on to think about things that dad's enjoy - favoured hobbies and interests (not exclusively male, of course!)

- Watching football - Going to a rugby match - Spending a day at the cricket ground - Watching or participating in other sports - Spending time in the garden or allotment - Fishing - Twitching (birdwatching) - Stamp or coin collecting - Walking the dog - Going down the pub or club.


Next we asked members to complete the following phrases (by way of a shout out) ...

Before you were a twinkle in your father's EYE Father of the BRIDE A bit of how's your FATHER Like father, like SON Experience is the father of WISDOM Old enough to be your FATHER Sugar DADDY Go on my SON Son of a GUN Who's your DADDY Daddy long LEGS Daddy's GIRL Pop goes the WEASEL



A chip off the old BLOCK

The apple doesn't fall far from the TREE Honour thy father and MOTHER Our Father who art in HEAVEN


My Top 39 movies for 'Father's Day'

Ask members at the end if I have missed any of their favourites? Try and reach consensus on what should be the 40th movie.

(Give clues such as first names if members get stuck. Encourage discussion about the movies.)

1. 'Rear Window', 1954

Which actor is pictured here?

Who directed the movie?

2. 'Tiger Bay', 1959

Name the father and daughter actors?

Why was Cardiff Bay previously called 'Tiger Bay'?

3. 'Ben Hur', 1959

Which actor is pictured here?

In which city was the famous 'Chariot Scene' set?

4. 'The Magnificent Seven', 1960

Can you name any of the actors pictured here?

5. 'To Kill A Mockingbird', 1962

Who played the part of Atticus Finch?

Who wrote the book?

6. 'The Pink Panther', 1963

Who starred in these movies and what was his character's name?

7. 'The Great Escape', 1963

Who is pictured here and how did he try to escape?

8. 'Goldfinger', 1964

Which James Bond actor is this and who (not pictured) played Pussy Galore?

9. 'The Good, The Bad And The Ugly', 1966

Which actor is pictured here?

Why is this genre of movie called a 'Spaghetti Western'?

10. 'True Grit', 1969

Name this actor?

What was his birth name?

11. 'The Italian Job', 1969

Name the actor?

Complete this phrase together. "You were only suppose to ...!"

12. 'Butch Cassidy And The Sundance Kid', 1969

Name these two actors?

13. 'Carry On Camping', 1969

Name these two actors?

Who (not pictured) lost their bikini top during an exercise class?

Heres the clip - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UklIMCtUxTU&t=1s

14. 'Midnight Cowboy', 1969

Name these two actors?

15. 'The Godfather', 1972

Which actor is pictured here and what was his character's name?

16. 'Paper Moon', 1973

Which real life father and daughter actors are pictured here?

17. 'Blazing Saddles', 1974

Who directed this comedy?

What do they all start doing after eating their beans?

Here's the clip - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPIP9KXdmO0

18. 'Star Wars', 1977

Name these father and son characters?

19. 'Superman', 1978

Who played the part of Superman?

What was he 'allergic' to?

20. 'The Shining', 1980

Which actor is wielding the axe?

What does he say as he axes the door down?

21. 'Chariots Of Fire', 1981

Who wrote the music score for this movie?

Where were the 1924 'Olympic Games' held (a city name beginning with 'P')?

22. 'Three Men And A Baby', 1987

Name these three actors?

23. 'Planes, Trains And Automobiles', 1987

Name these two actors?

What occasion were they heading home to celebrate?

24. 'Field Of Dreams', 1989

Name the two actors pictured here?

25. 'Indiana Jones And The Last Crusade', 1989

Name these two actors?

True or False. There is too little of an age gap for the older man to be the younger man's father?

26. 'Mrs Doubtfire', 1993

Which actor is pictured here?

What was the character's first name?

27. 'Jurassic Park', 1993

What type of dinosaur is pictured here?

What is said to have made dinosaurs extinct?

28. 'The Lion King', 1994

Name the two lions?

29. 'Apollo 13', 1995

Name these three actors?

What year was the Apollo 13 incident?

30. 'Braveheart', 1995

Name the actor?

What was Braveheart's real name?

31. 'Mission Impossible', 1996

Which actor is pictured here doing the impossible?

How old is he now?

32. 'Saving Private Ryan', 1998

What were the five landing beaches in Dunkirk codenamed?

33. 'Gladiator', 2000

Name this actor?

Which famous actor died during the making of this movie?

34. 'Billy Elliot', 2000

Which actor is picture here?

Who played his dance teacher?

35. 'Lord Of The Rings: The Fellowship Of The Ring', 2001

What is the character's name?

Who wrote the books?

36. 'Mamma Mia', 2008

Which pop group's music is the film based on?

Which James Bond actor is pictured here?

37. 'Eddie The Eagle', 2016

What was his surname?

What year did he compete in the 'Calgary Winter Olympic Games'?

38. 'Bohemian Rhapsody', 2018

Name the four members of the band 'Queen'?

How many weeks did this song stay at number 1 in 1975/6?

39. 'Rocketman', 2019

Who starred in this movie (and 'Eddie The Eagle')?

What was Elton John's real name?

40. Ask members to nominate the 40th missing movie?

















We decided to have a 'Beautifying Session', with hairdressing and nail care provided.

For the male members of the group, we asked who wanted their hair combed and slicked back with Brylcreem. We passed around some old men's aftershaves to smell